Does he only want to have sex? Being in a relationship is complicated. You are actually opening yourself up to another person.Take this quiz to find out whether your man is your soul mate or solely in it to get into your pants. Q. 1: * What kind of places do you usually go to on dates? Candlelit dinner at a romantic restaurant. Discos or pubs. Dark movie theatres, especially movies that no one else seems to like. We spend time usually at his or my place especially when it’s empty.